In this candid interview, Mandy Hickson—former RAF Tornado pilot and motivational speaker—opens up about flying fast jets, breaking gender barriers, and inspiring the next generation with her trademark courage and clarity.
Q: Why did you decide to become a military pilot? What draws you to flying?
A: I had my first flying lesson for my 13th birthday and instantly fell in love. At 14, I joined the Air Training Corps and gained my Private Pilot’s Licence by 18. Flying felt like dancing with the clouds—no two flights are ever the same, and that challenge is what I loved most.
Q: Did you face gender stereotypes?
A: Absolutely. I was only the second woman to fly the Tornado GR4, so there were plenty of people who thought it was a man’s job. But whenever you’re part of change, there’s always resistance. It was my job to prove them wrong.
Q: What was the most terrifying and the most memorable moment of your missions?
A: One terrifying moment was a bird strike in Scotland—we lost an engine and had to declare a Mayday. On the flip side, flying over the Grand Canyon right after take-off from Las Vegas was unforgettable. That mix of adrenaline and awe is why I loved the job.
Q: How did you stay calm in high-pressure situations?
A: Training, training, training. You rely on logic, stay focused, and build strong situational awareness. It’s about staying present and using your skills.
Q: How did your RAF career end, and what did it teach you?
A: I completed a 16-year contract and left feeling fulfilled. The RAF taught me so much—leadership, goal-setting, teamwork. I now share those lessons with businesses worldwide, especially in threat and error management.
Q: Was it difficult being the only woman on the squadron?
A: It could be. There weren’t many visible female role models when I started, but my parents, especially my mum, always told me, “Why shouldn’t it be you?” I also had supportive colleagues who made a big difference.
Q: How did you balance motherhood and a demanding career?
A: It’s tough, like it is for any working parent. There’s always that guilt—feeling like you’re not giving enough to your job or your children. But I’ve learned to be kinder to myself and accept that we’re all doing our best.
Q: What keeps you motivated?
A: To live life to the full, to love those around me unconditionally, and to have no regrets. That’s my motivation every day.
Q: What does a typical day in the RAF look like?
A: There’s no “typical” day! A mission day starts with a weather brief, planning with your team, and a detailed flight briefing. After suiting up, the flight might last 90 minutes, involving bombing practice, combat, or navigation. Then we’d debrief to learn from every mission. It’s intense but rewarding.
Q: What do you hope young people take from your story?
A: Follow your dream, not anyone else’s. Be true to yourself, stay courageous, and never give up—there’s always another path to your goal. My motto is: Dream it, Believe it, Do it.
Q: What are your hobbies now?
A: I love tennis, long walks with my husband, and skiing when I can. I also enjoy supporting my kids on the sports field and serve as a trustee at the Victory Services Club. And when I get time—I read!
Q: What’s next for you?
A: I’m climbing Kilimanjaro! It’s part adventure, part personal challenge, and I’m so excited.
Q: Final question—how would you describe yourself in one word?
A: Courageous.
